This is for the Ladies
Why do women travel in small packs? I always see groups of three. I hear that women hate on each other, so thats the reason. Or there is always the chick with all guy friends. Or the real hot chick with friends that might be a little over weight. Whats the deal? I need a little feed back on this because guys don’t seem to have the same problems with their friends. What are we doing that you women cant? Hit me up what your point of veiw… TRAGIC
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I sometimes go out alone (like last night) but we meet up in the club. Sometimes chicks wanna fight…sometimes they don’t. I had to stop hanging with this one bi chick cuz when we went out, her “boyfriend/baby daddy” and his friends used to pull out her ponytail and beat her up in the club! Outside, too! *btw, this happened last week* I just try to stay out of trouble…and jail.
Ok, first lets start by saying, you guys have the same problems with your friends as we do… Ya’ll either 1. dont care cuz “thats ya nigga” or 2. are completely oblivious to the fact. and as for the other questions… why we travel in packs..i’m not really sure about this one..its encoded in our DNA to travel in cliques I suppose. Lol. I think its because when we’re younger, we’re always told dont go anywhere alone always have someone else with you..but you boys, ya’ll didnt get that cuz lets be real.. how likely is it that a man is going to be attacked by a woman?? now as far as the chick with all the guy friends..some of us believe its easier and less stressful to hang with a bunch of guys because u dont have to worry about them trying to steal your man, ect.. I used to think that men had less drama than women…I have since learned, ya’ll just hide your drama better than we do.
Now, the really hot chick, with the “overweight” friends..thats simple.. they arent any kind of competition for her..just like the girl with all the guy friends..
Hope i help give u some insight into women’s ways…
cya
First of all women can do anything guys can! Lol No seriously it’s a secruity issue. You go out in groups to look out for each other. Or that’s the way it sould be. Say your home girl’s a little to tipsy and want’s to go home, or wherever, with a scrub we gotta look out for each other. Same as you would for your homie. The hot chic that hangs out with the HEAVY girls are just insecure and the chics that have a lot of guy friends are what I say for the most part normal cause lets face you GUYS are great and are the main reason we go out!
Well I don’t know y women travel in threes but I seen the guys travel in more than threes. But I have learned in life that females and males both have drama and jealous amongest their friendships. Now a days pple is just not real any more just out for themselves. You have to be careful who you pick as a friend. Personally I don’t hang with females because females are not to be trusted and when trouble hit they run out on you. I have mostly males friends. Y do I? For one when a bother says he is your friend he is your friend and a bother is down for whatever without thinking about what might happen, he looks out for you, he would fight for you and teaches u things, give you a place to sleep and food in your mouth. In my experiences males have been a betta friend to me than any females I did have as friends. To answer Tragic question Males don’t have that problem because if they don’t like a nigga they don’t fuck with him where a female can hate u and pretend to be ur friend just to fuck over u. Males are more real and straight forward with their shyt without hiding anything from their boys where females pretend a lot and not so straight forward with theirs. Well I am out.
I wanted to drop a line on my version of how things work. I’m a divorced mom so by my natural instinct I’ve gotta watch out for myself so that i’m around for my kiddos. I think they travel in numbers for
1. Because it’s so dangerous now a days 2. Usually it’s because whomever they’re around has usually been a friend for along time 3. I’m a mom so whenever I can I like to just have that ADULT contact (meaning somebody just to talk to or have listen to what’s up in my world or just to go and chill with. Most of the time calling up a guy and saying hey I just wanted to have some ADULT contact well your a guy they aren’t referring to the same thing as me.
As for why one girl travels in a group of guys I’ve found it’s usually because she’s known one or more of them for a long time and there’s no competition and hell if for no other reason i’m sure them guys make her feel safe. Let’s face it men sometimes make better friends if they’re a true friend anyways. I’ve always had male friends they seem to get the hint better than girls sometimes let’s face it now a days doesn’t matter if your friends with guys or girls you never know which one will try something to cause the friendship to progress to something more.
If there’s a girl walking around that’s the perfect size in life’s eyes with other girl’s who has a few extra pounds it’s usually because as pretty as she may be 1. One of the girl or girls are usually kin somewhere down the line 2. She THINKS that girl or girls doesn’t offer up no competition but that’s her bad. I’m not gonna hate on being Insecure we’ve all been that way at one point are another let’s face it.
Learned long ago Never trust anybody but don’t doubt them til they give you a reason.
i personally think that women travel in packs as you say is because its a insecurity thang, and then somethimes they can get their “stunt” on. but for along time i use to think that they hung with alot of chicks was because if some shit goes down then someone of the bunch could fight, i still think that. now with some hanging with the fellas, thats because they cool, having fun, i know i would personally like to hang with the fellas than chicks anyday. now the one that hotter than the rest, thats just fucking common sense, fellas will be getting at her. on the slick that chick is trying to dogg her girls out, but hey if they never worry why they looking like leftover sushi meat and only one looking like she on top of her game then thats on them. i for one could never do that to my girls. if we gone be toe down, we gone be gutter together but if we looking str8 then we gone be on point together.